The general impression about men is that they are the ones who prefer the no-strings attached form of dating. However, women are also not far behind in this. They also do not mind being in flings and not serious relationships. Not every woman looks for commitment in a relationship. There are some women who are casual and totally cool about being in a relationship that has no scope for feelings or emotions, but has a lot of scope for a lot of wild sex. If you are looking for a woman who is okay with flings, then it can be quite tricky. You have to tread this path quite carefully and understand the signs before you are certain that the woman is also on the same page as you. You cannot afford to offend her in case she is looking for something serious, right? So here are 6 obvious signs that will help you be sure that the girl you are dating wants a fling and not a serious relationship. (ALSO READ 5 signs that your girl is emotionally unavailable).
She touches you differently and quite suggestively
This one is a given. If your woman is really interested in you, she will let you know with the way she touches you. A normal hand holding only means she likes you . Do not think of it as a sign for sex. However, she plays with your ears, neck and keeps brushing her leg with yours, these are indicative signs.
She never misses any opportunity to kiss you
A woman who has only sex in her mind and no commitment, will make use of every opportunity to get close to you. A woman who is in love, will make use of similar opportunities to spend time with you, talk to you and get to know you. However if sex is all she wants, she will make sure she makes out as often as possible in every possible place.
You guys hardly have any deep conversations
If you guys have no conversations about love and life, you can be sure that you both are on the same page and all she is looking for is a fling. Women in love usually talk about their desires, dreams, their past and everything about their friends and family. If your girl has never shown interest in all this, you know that this is a fling.
And the only conversation you have is sex chat
And you can be surer if the only time you guys actually had a long chat was when you were doing sex chat. Sex chat is the only talk you guys have most of the times. For a little help, if you really don’t know anything about sexting, you know we have solution for that too. We had given you sexting tips so that the person is impressed – read and you will know how.
She asks a lot about your sexual desires and fantasies
So your girl is curious to know you. But the only thing she wants to know is what you think about sex, your past sex life, what are your sexual desires, do you have sexual fantasies and so on. If anything about sex makes her curious and she keeps bringing up this topic with you, this can also be a sign that she wants a fling and a plain sex partner. (ALSO READ Befikre and the world of casual dating and sex: 5 tips to get you started).
Another very obvious way of being sure whether your girl wants a fling or not is to just ask. Ask her politely and tell her what you are looking for. That way everything will be simple and mess free.
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