Sex can be amazing if you do it right. A couple needs to put in some conscious efforts to make sure that sex is amazing. You cannot be selfish on bed and just think about your pleasure. You also need to ensure that your partner’s needs are taken care of.  Also you need to shed all your inhibitions during sex, only then can you explore and make the most of it.  These are the 5 things that you should definitely not forget so that you enjoy the best sex life. ALSO READ These are the 5 reasons why sex is important in your relationship!

1. Do not doubt his feelings for you

Maybe your man doesn’t want to have sex as often as you do but that doesn’t mean he does not love you anymore. Some people have lower sex drive and that is absolutely normal. If you also have doubts about if he loves you at all, then you should just stay away from all these thoughts.

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2. Having fantasies is completely okay

There is nothing to be embarrassed about fantasies. Everybody should have and it is also important that you fulfill them. If you are apprehensive about how your partner will perceive it or if he will judge you all you need to do is talk to him about it. ALSO READ Here are the 5 sex discussions that you should have with your partner!

3. If you are not wet, feel free to use lubrication

Lubrication has got nothing to with sexual needs. It is more of a pleasure than need. Just because you use lube it doesn’t mean that you are not aroused or you are not wet. Using a lube can also mean that you guys just want to have more fun.

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4. Communication is the key

Never stop communicating with your partner. Communication will help you get a better understanding about your partner’s sexual needs. Talking about sex is vital and things will only get better after an intense conversation. ALSO READ These are the 7 things you didn’t know about sex, love and relationships!

5. Just relax and breathe easy

Women spend a lot of time thinking about how they look, if their hair is in place and so on. Do not spend too much of your time over thinking. Just chill out and relax. Men don’t even think about all this.  He doesn’t think about your weight or how you look. Maybe he is just thinking about the act.

Just focus on all these 5 things ans we assure you that you will have one of the best sex ever. Sex is an act that happens naturally, the more you plan it, chances are the worse it gets. Just go with the flow. Talk about your fantasies, your likes and dislikes and the act will just get more beautiful.

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