India is known to be growing by leaps and bounds and we, Indians, are becoming broad minded and open to newer ideas. However, in certain aspects, Indians, especially men are still hypocritical in their thought process. Indian men will go around with multiple girlfriends and also opt for live-in relationships.
But for them virginity of their brides is still a touchy issue as it was 10 years back. Isn’t that the biggest irony that Indian men still drool over a blushing virgin wife, while they are open to premarital sex? This is also one of the major reasons, why Indian men don’t prefer to marry their girl friends or ex’s. They might have happily bedded their lady love several times, but still find them unfit for marriage some how.
According to the HT-MaRS Youth Survey, the modern day women easily embraces sexuality, which men find it difficult to do so. This could be due to numerous reasons, one of which is the male ego. No Indian men likes their women to be touhced by somebody else, be it their girl friends or wives.
Secondly, men don’t like to be compared. The fear of their wife comparing their love making skills with their ex’s, can also be a reason for marrying a virgin girl.
Indian men also don’t mind having extra-marital affairs, but cannot tolerate the same thought for their spouses. Nevertheless, the biggest question that remains unanswered is how would a man know his wife is a virgin or not? Findings state that there is no way to determine the virginity of a women, expect is she admits losing it? Moreover, modern day science has advanced enough to reconstruct a broken hymen through a surgery called Hymenoplasty.
Well, the key to happy marriage is not virginity of your wife, but the trust that you have in her? Honesty, trust and understanding are the quality partners need to have. If they trust you then they will be honest to you, and they are honest to you, admire and understand him/her. These simple things will surely lead you to a “Happy Married Life”.