Actor Malaika Arora is often criticised for dating Arjun Kapoor after divorce with Arbaaz Khan. Arjun is around 12 years younger to Malaika and that’s one of the reasons why the two are not encouraged for their relationship. However, that doesn’t affect the couple. Malaika lives unapologetically and is quite unabashed in her personal choices. It’s the same brazen stand that she is celebrating this Women’s Day. Also Read - Malaika Arora Doesn't Want a Remix of 'Chaiyya Chaiyaa' And She Has a Valid Reason For it

Malaika wrote a long post about the women who are ‘really happy’ today. She mentioned how happy women are not the ones who can be labelled with the tags of ‘married’, ‘single’ or the one who have good careers. Malaika said the happy women are those who took a decision to stay happy in their lives. She talked about the importance of ‘self-esteem’ for women and mentioned how women should refuse to stay unhappy. Her post encourages women to stop whining about their miserable lives in the parties and do something to fix that up. A part of Malaika’s post reads, “They stopped playing victims. They stopped whining in self-pity and dining in pity parties. They moved past their anger, tears and bitterness. They realized that happiness is a personal choice and responsibility. They chose to be defined by their present, but not their pasts.” (sic). Check out her full post here: Also Read - Kareena Kapoor Khan, Malaika Arora, Amrita Arora Refine Friendship as They Strike Jolly Pose in Latest Picture



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The happiest women today are not the married ones. They’re not the single ones. They’re not the ones with stable careers and good incomes. The happiest women are the ones who made a choice to love themselves wholly and truly. Women who chose to leave the past behind, worked on their self-esteem and put a high price tag on their self-esteem. They stopped playing victims. They stopped whining in self-pity and dining in pity parties. They moved past their anger, tears and bitterness. They realized that happiness is a personal choice and responsibility. They chose to be defined by their present, but not their pasts. They are happy because they don’t need validation from anyone. They are happy because they know that they don’t need to throw shade on anyone for them to shine. They are happy because they chose to be Queens …. Happy Women’s day today n everyday ♥️… such beautiful words

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Malaika is one of the most celebrated female actors in the industry. Her dedication to fitness and fashion is totally admirable. It was at the age of 44 that she decided to come out of her ‘unhappy’ marriage. The actor is a mother to a 17-year-old who is often seen dining out with both her and Arjun. Malaika has found her happiness in work, fitness, being with her girls (Kareena, Karisma, Amrita and Natasha), and by simply refusing to ‘adjust’ to things that made her unhappy in life.



Happy Women’s Day to all!