If you are in a relationship, it is normal to have arguments. Having different personalities or different opinions about something or a whole lot of other reasons can lead to a fight no matter how much you guys love each other. It is a sign of a healthy relationship. That being said, one of you must try to resolve the argument by apologizing and most of the times, girls expect their boyfriend to do it. Boys, on the other hand, are usually clueless about how to handle the situation. This post-fight time is sensitive for your relationship. The way you handle it can make or break your relationship. So, if you do not know what to say or do, here are some tips to make up with your girlfriend after a huge fight. (ALSO READ 5 reasons why arguing with your partner is not bad after all).Also Read - 5 Most Trustworthy Zodiac Signs Who Will Never Betray You
1. Talk to her patiently about the cause of the fight
Although the argument is over, she is still angry. Instead of starting the fight again, talk to your partner calmly. Analyze the cause of the fight and not the things that were said during the fight. Tell her about your perspective and listen to her side of the story. Then, you guys could look for a solution and if there is no solution, agree to disagree and move on. Also Read - Unlearning The Learning!
2. Say sorry and show your love for her
It is not difficult to say sorry. So, if you have walked out of the house after the fight, pick up the phone and apologize to her and tell her you love her. And try to sound apologetic instead of just uttering out the words. You also need to show your love for her. Send her a cheesy romantic text and ask her to forgive you. (ALSO READ LSO READ These 6 tips will tell you how to maintain a good relationship with your husband!). Also Read - 5 Zodiac Signs Who Are Loyal And 'Made For Each Other'
3. Show her that the relationship is more important than the fight
You guys may have had a nasty fight with some harsh words and lot of crying but at the end of the day, you guys are in this relationship. After a fight, take your time to just cool off and then hug your girlfriend. If she is not ready for a hug, let her know that you have put the fight behind you.
4. Give her a gift or do something for her
When you meet her after a fight, always get her a gift. The gift should be something she always wanted and not something random. Also, get her some flowers (if she is not allergic to them, that is) and chocolates. The trick is to show her that you are there to fulfill her wishes and more. This will make her forget the fight and hug you. (ALSO READ 6 tips to avoid ugly arguments in your relationship).
5. And of course, make up sex
Well, it is the best way to end an argument. It will let you guys release out the pent-up anger and tension. The argument will have you both charged up and you will switch from one emotion to another. It will leave you happier. However, make up sex cannot replace an apology. So, remember to say sorry.
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