How to have a long term relationship: 6 rules for a happy ending!

Few tips to make your relationship last longer!

There is no dearth of articles that talk about long term relationships and how to make it work. Several of us want to find a perfect partner and settle down. However, not many realize that long term relationships are not like casual ones where very little effort is taken. If you wish to be in a long term relationship, you will have to put in conscious efforts to make sure that it sticks that long. Except for love that happens naturally, the rest has to be brought into the relationship. It is easy to say to walk away when things are bad or to be stubborn about some things you believe in.  There are a group of people who just do not get the whole idea of small sacrifices and compromises. If you belong to the same category, chances are your relation won’t last long. For those of you who are really looking for a long term relationship, here are some tips and suggestions that will make it work for you. This is how you have a long term relationship.  Read these and decide how many of these can you do for your love:

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1. Compromises are okay:

Relationships are not just about going on dates and watching movies together. There is a lot more serious stuff to do to make it last and one of them is compromise.  It is absolutely okay if you have to do small compromises for the sake of your relationship. By compromise we don’t mean to give up your career or your dreams. It only means to sometimes let go some fights, to agree to something you don’t believe in. Make sure that you also don’t let your partner compromise too much that leads to him/her losing their identity.

2. Communication is the key:

Relationships die because of lack of communication.  Communication is the key to any relationship. It helps you understand your partner better. If you are not able to openly talk about your issues, feelings, joys and sadness, then the whole purpose of being in a relationship is defeated.  The secret to a long term relationship is also communication.  Talk like you would with a friend and voice anything that you think is bothering you. But do not throw tantrums or quarrel, talk in a subtle manner with respect and politely.

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3. Face obstacles and work out your differences:

Relationships are a lot easier when you both are not living together. When two people in love start living together, that is when they realize that there are a lot more differences that similarities. Suddenly, everything looks different and hard to handle.  But true love is about facing these differences together and overcoming every challenge.  Please accept the fact that when in a relationship, there are bound to be arguments, quarrels and fights. It is fine and absolutely normal. So when you guys start living together, do not give up too soon because you can’t handle the differences. Your partner’s habits, eating style, talking, dress style and every small thing will come to your notice. If you don’t like these, just hold on to it and you will how in a couple of months you get over such trivial things.

4. Maintain honesty and keep the trust strong:

You have no idea what the power of trust and honest is? It is more often than not the decider of a relationship.  You will always remain in love to a person who is honest and trust worthy.   Even if you do not agree to certain things or beliefs, you should always talk it out instead of lying about it. If there is something that you know your partner won’t like but you still want to do it, just ensure that you still do it only after you have told. If you lie and you are caught, your partner will never be able to trust you again. Do not let that situation come in because to repair that is very difficult. So, one of the most important aspects of having a long term relationship is to maintain the trust and honesty in any given situation.

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5. Be vocal about what you need:

Often we end up hiding our needs only for the love of our lives. But our suggestion to you is that always be vocal about your needs. Your partner deserves to know your needs and wishes.  Sometimes to put ourselves second is okay, but do not make this a habit.  If there are certain things that really matter to you, you should be realistic and let your partner know about it. For instance, if you are moving out to a different city or a giving up career for a baby, such things needs to be discussed. Do not hide your needs for your partner. We are sure your partner will accept and appreciate whatever you do.

6. Keep the spark alive:

Make sure even after years of being together the spark is still there.  Continue doing every small gesture that you did in the star of your relation. Movie dates, lunch dates, surprises, unexpected calls, hugs and kisses, all these small things go a long way.  This is the only way how you can keep the romance alive.

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